| Are you happy with your mate? Or like me, do you wish you’d never married this person, and find yourself wishing that they’d meet someone else and leave you for them? Or, just leave you for any reason. I’m feeling this more and more everyday. My husband is lazy, grouchy, and just downright unpleasant to be around. He is as unhappy with me, as I am with him, but he doesn’t have a job, so just hangs around and sponges off of me. If you had it to do all over again, would you marry the same person? I wouldn’t. |
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your husband is the same person you found attractive enough to marry so many years ago. Your perception of him has changed. today you look at him with critical eyes and find him full of holes and considers him a sponge. what if he suddenly gets a million dollars lottery. would you still percieve him the same way.try to build his self esteem discuss matters with him show him you still have faith in his abilities and see the change taking place. remember you see what you expect to see and your husband is helping you to do that because that is what you expect of him.Change your perception and see the difference.God Bless
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